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WDF?
#1 Posted: : Wednesday, October 07, 2009 9:58:08 PM
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I need some time alone. I won't be on here. I won't be responding to anything.


Sunfox is here if you need him. Life has thrown me an unexpected curveball. It's a good one though. I'm finally clear headed. I just need some time to evaluate what has happened to me.

I can promise that when I return, I'll be a much different person than before. A tumor has been removed from my being. This will be for the best.



In the mean time. Sorry for the lack of interest. Video games... just don't mean anything to me at the moment.


I will return.

If you're confused as to wtf this is about, here's a link: http://www.wdfnews.com/w..._What-are-you-doing.aspx


[13:58] TheSpaniard84: I have a kitty stuck to my rump
[13:58] WhuTdufK: I suppose that's better than what's normally stuck to your rump.
Mr. 12
#2 Posted: : Wednesday, October 07, 2009 10:02:46 PM
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Take your time, Whut. We'll be here supporting you. =)
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TitaniumPhoenix
#3 Posted: : Wednesday, October 07, 2009 10:04:54 PM
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You know we love you and we'll be here whenever you get back! :)

*EDIT*

Holy shit, I just read why... I'm sorry, James. No one deserves that, particularly a nice guy like you :(
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{pDs} TitaniumPhoenix: We're Mexican. I say we pull a razor outta our titties and cut them!
[CMS]Noobina: omg thats where you keep yours too?!

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{pDs} TitaniumPhoenix: You mean that's not you in my titties? THEN WHO IS IT? D:
{pDs} Razor: I don't know but I would imagine if you push them together you would probably hear AFLAC!!!

Lead Salad
#4 Posted: : Wednesday, October 07, 2009 10:25:08 PM
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As bam said us locals are here for you. Give us a ring if you need homie support.
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#5 Posted: : Thursday, October 08, 2009 1:58:23 AM
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After reading why...I feel for ya. I would want to disappear for a while too. Yet another reason why I'm single...F'n Bitches. Shit they pull like that leaves a sting. When my ex dumped me all those years ago for the guy with the old-balls, I was in a rough spot for a good couple years. For that, I live by "once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater" -Yes- I do trust them that little.

Here's the perspective I now take on what happened to me then, and Whut, maybe it can apply to you too... bear with me though, it's a metaphor...

A guy and his girlfriend are walking along, between the rails of a train-track. They walk for miles and miles, seemingly enjoying every minute of it, except for maybe some brief verbal altercations. The pair comes to a bridge where either side has a sharp 15 foot drop. Half way across this bridge, a train suddenly seems to come out of nowhere from the opposite direction, and neither of the couple can go back the way they came. The guy thinks both of them should jump off the bridge and fall the 15 feet. The guy knows they'll both make it, even though they'll both be injured. He knows though, that they'll heal, and heal even better because they did it together.
What he didn't know, is that she knew this train would come over this bridge. As the train is barreling closer to them, she violently pushes her man off the bridge. He falls hard, breaks his leg in three places, as well as two of his ribs, and he's pissed off "Hey bitch, what the hell did you push me off the tracks for?!" He says this as he witnesses the train hit her, but it didn't kill her. It caught her, and dragged her off to some other track. She wound up staying by the train, it became her train, and she ended up as some kind of manager of a gas station. She may have ended up happy, but she missed out on the full potential that was waiting on the other side of that bridge all that time ago.
As for the guy, despite being partially crippled with a broken leg, and unable to breathe from his broken ribs, he made it to safety all by himself. His injuries healed, but only to leave rare occurrences of the pain. Initially he was pissed off and confused and hurt that his woman pushed him off the bridge all that time ago, but now he's grateful. Grateful because he eventually found his full potential, and grateful that he was shoved out of the way of an oncoming train and lived to tell about it.


Bottom line, chicks...are devious...enjoy being single...stay that way for a while. It is crucial early on to talk to people, and not bottle up any feelings. You may not feel like talking, but there are a great deal of people here that care about you, and want to help you through this if/when you need it.
I tell ya...nothing but devious...


HAHA stupid horse, the sign says Deer crossing

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#6 Posted: : Thursday, October 08, 2009 5:46:07 AM
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That the thing about this community, James. We'll be here when you return. We'll be here even if you get sick of us and leave for years.

We're kind of weird that way, I suppose. But we are here for you if you need us.


And keep an eye out on your front porch for pie. I can't make any promises, as these past few months have been tough with the cash flow situation, but pie has a tendency of appearing when you least expect it.
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#7 Posted: : Thursday, October 08, 2009 10:32:10 AM
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:( sorry hear about that, take all the time you need, we'll be here if you need any support.
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#8 Posted: : Thursday, October 08, 2009 11:14:48 AM
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Come back soon.
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#9 Posted: : Thursday, October 08, 2009 5:01:19 PM
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you still got my number if you need me James? i'll always be here to talk.

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The film "Brokeback Mountain" was originally pitched as an off-beat romance starring MrT and WhutDuFuk. The sole reason the two legends declined the starring roles is because if MrT and WhutDuFuk were to kiss, there would be new meaning to the word homosexual...it would mean "obligation".
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#10 Posted: : Thursday, October 08, 2009 6:49:47 PM
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McCheese wrote:
After reading why...I feel for ya. I would want to disappear for a while too. Yet another reason why I'm single...F'n Bitches. Shit they pull like that leaves a sting. When my ex dumped me all those years ago for the guy with the old-balls, I was in a rough spot for a good couple years. For that, I live by "once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater" -Yes- I do trust them that little.

Here's the perspective I now take on what happened to me then, and Whut, maybe it can apply to you too... bear with me though, it's a metaphor...

A guy and his girlfriend are walking along, between the rails of a train-track. They walk for miles and miles, seemingly enjoying every minute of it, except for maybe some brief verbal altercations. The pair comes to a bridge where either side has a sharp 15 foot drop. Half way across this bridge, a train suddenly seems to come out of nowhere from the opposite direction, and neither of the couple can go back the way they came. The guy thinks both of them should jump off the bridge and fall the 15 feet. The guy knows they'll both make it, even though they'll both be injured. He knows though, that they'll heal, and heal even better because they did it together.
What he didn't know, is that she knew this train would come over this bridge. As the train is barreling closer to them, she violently pushes her man off the bridge. He falls hard, breaks his leg in three places, as well as two of his ribs, and he's pissed off "Hey bitch, what the hell did you push me off the tracks for?!" He says this as he witnesses the train hit her, but it didn't kill her. It caught her, and dragged her off to some other track. She wound up staying by the train, it became her train, and she ended up as some kind of manager of a gas station. She may have ended up happy, but she missed out on the full potential that was waiting on the other side of that bridge all that time ago.
As for the guy, despite being partially crippled with a broken leg, and unable to breathe from his broken ribs, he made it to safety all by himself. His injuries healed, but only to leave rare occurrences of the pain. Initially he was pissed off and confused and hurt that his woman pushed him off the bridge all that time ago, but now he's grateful. Grateful because he eventually found his full potential, and grateful that he was shoved out of the way of an oncoming train and lived to tell about it.


Bottom line, chicks...are devious...enjoy being single...stay that way for a while. It is crucial early on to talk to people, and not bottle up any feelings. You may not feel like talking, but there are a great deal of people here that care about you, and want to help you through this if/when you need it.
I tell ya...nothing but devious...


and that is why they have those signs on the train track bridges telling you to stay off.
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#11 Posted: : Thursday, October 08, 2009 7:57:09 PM
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Hey man. Sorry to hear about the shitastic news. I know we've only met once, but feel free to give me a call if you want some company. We could meet up for drinks or just to hang out and play some games. I'll always be around.
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#12 Posted: : Thursday, October 08, 2009 8:19:00 PM
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James,

I understand you're in pain. I understand all too well the need, especially when things are bad, to reevaluate your priorities, and inevitably videogames and "screwing around" hobbies fall short. I can't tell you what you should do or how to go from here, since figuring that out by itself is part of growth and change.

The only thing I'd say is to encourage you not to push yourself too far from the table that is this community you've built. Videogame-focused or not, it's still a pretty decent cadre of people with diverse backgrounds who'd never have come close to knowing one another if not for this place. Find a level of interaction with the community you're comfortable with that doesn't make you feel like you're ruining your life to keep it afloat. Shoot the shit once in a while on random topics, maybe start a few of your own. But for God's sake, do it once in a while like the rest of us -- as a part of the community, without the pressure of "management" on your shoulders.

You may not read this, you may want it all to go away for reasons I can't see. But dammit man, I flew halfway across the country with a $3000 projector and a suitcase just to party with people from this community. I taught myself how to do regression analyses in MS Excel just to make the perfect graph of HLStats points. I've even been able to sustain lengthy, well-reasoned arguments with a Marxist socialist who I also call a friend. And I'd do it all again.

It should lift you up to see what you've done here. You should be proud of it, and you better frickin' well ought to know by now that we all stand by you and don't want to see you disappear.


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#13 Posted: : Thursday, October 08, 2009 11:47:53 PM
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I know you don't want to hear any "advice" and need to think right now. While you are thinking remember it does get better and can get much better if you want it too.
WDF?
#14 Posted: : Thursday, October 08, 2009 11:50:12 PM
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I know.

Have had a lot of free time to spend working on projects I wanted to focus on but hadn't had time to really work on. Like:


http://www.wdfnews.com/w...A-Busy-Child-Mark-2.aspx


[13:58] TheSpaniard84: I have a kitty stuck to my rump
[13:58] WhuTdufK: I suppose that's better than what's normally stuck to your rump.
WDF?
#15 Posted: : Friday, October 09, 2009 5:54:59 AM
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TitaniumPhoenix wrote:


Holy shit, I just read why... I'm sorry, James. No one deserves that, particularly a nice guy like you :(


I was thinking the same thing... I totally deserve to be lied to, cheated on, and treated like shit, all the while being blamed for all of the problems we had.

Seems lop-sided.


[13:58] TheSpaniard84: I have a kitty stuck to my rump
[13:58] WhuTdufK: I suppose that's better than what's normally stuck to your rump.
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